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Your Life is Your Story, Issue #229 – Family Focus
October 29, 2025
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"Your past is your story up to now. The future is the story yet to come. The present is where you live with that experience, your hopes and your dreams."




Your Life is Your Story Newsletter

October 29, 2025
Your Life is Your Story, Issue #229 – Family Focus

From Tom Gilbert – Editor and Writer, www.your-life-your-story.com

In this Issue:
Opening remarks: Wild World Series
Featured Article – Family Focus
Featured Resource – Cheryl Strayed - Wild

Opening Remarks: Wild World Series


The World Series has already played four games and the heavily favored Los Angeles Dodgers are finding that the Toronto Blue Jays are a very resilient bunch.

It’s a Canadian team against a historic American franchise. The Blue Jays haven’t been to the Fall Classic since 1993. That’s a long wait for their fans. On the other hand, the Dodgers are the defending champions, so they were on this stage just a year ago when they went on to beat the New York Yankees.

Baseball’s best meet each year in the World Series, the pennant winners from the American League and the National League. In order to make it this far the competitors must make it through the various playoff levels. While the Dodgers won game three in an epic 18 inning game the Blue Jays came back to win last night and tie the series at two games apiece. The first team to win four in the best of seven series gets to be the World Champions. Plenty of stars like Shohei Ohtani and Vladimir Guerrero Junior and lots of action. Baseball is my favorite sport and can teach us a lot about life.


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Featured Article: Family Focus


What you focus on becomes magnified in your mind. Spend all your time focused on problems and you’ll probably get a headache. Focus on solutions and one just might come to you.

I’ve been thinking about the importance of focusing on family. It seems more important than ever given the somewhat distressing times we live in.

My sister just came out from Kansas City this past week to visit and we had a good time together, enjoying meals, chatting about past and present, and mostly being grateful to have each other.

Consider the various members of your family. I realize not every family is ideal, in fact the term dysfunctional can probably apply to any family, at least a little bit. Nevertheless, having parents, siblings, children, grandparents, grandchildren, and cousins gives us an opportunity to learn from each other, play together, and tell stories.

Telling tales is often the most fun

There are many different roles that various family members might play. Someone typically is the caretaker. Other types include the agitator, the drama ruler and the peacemaker.

Storyteller is a good one and people often gravitate to that one family member who can weave a spell with reminiscences and outlandish memories.

Some families also have that one person who seemingly remembers everything (although often with their “selective” memory) and likes to remind the rest of us about certain embarrassing things we’d like to keep under our hats. You know, that person also just might turn out to be the family historian.

They say you can pick your friends, but you can’t pick your family. For better or worse. Focus on the good and don’t let family drama get you down.


Read more articles at here.

Some suggestions that include a family theme include:
Lessons From My Daughter
Grandparenting
Family December Reflections
Two Brothers, A Truck, and Jaws

Featured Resource: Cheryl Strayed - Wild

It has only been a few days since I finished reading Cheryl Strayed’s incredible memoir, Wild. I guess as a person who deals with lots of life story writing I am late to the party, nevertheless, now that I have read it I am reminded of what makes a great memoir and how important it is for us to read as many good ones as you can.

Cheryl Strayed was just in her mid-twenties when she decided to hike 1,700 kilometers of the Pacific Coast Trail (PCT). It was a serious undertaking that she freely admits through the course of her story she was ill prepared to undertake. Still, she did it, walking over 90 days through some very difficult conditions. She had a backpack way bigger and heavier than she probably needed which she nicknamed “Monster.” She could hardly lift it. Her feet took some brutal punishment, partly because her boots were too small. It’s fascinating how she learns this and what the solution ends up being.

Mostly what I found so great about her memoir was her honesty, vulnerability, insight and terrific visual writing. At that point in life she had been through four years of real grief, mostly from losing her mother to cancer, but also going through a divorce, addiction and angst over her purpose in life. It is a terrific read. I believe we can find ourselves in our stories which is one of the good reasons for doing a memoir.

Listen to Cheryl Strayed talk about her powerful memoir in this short almost three minute YouTube clip.

Closing Information

That’s it for this month’s issue. Thanks for reading. Here’s to telling your story. Do give it some serious consideration because I just know you’ve got a great story to tell! Be sure to see the Get Started section.

Any comments, ideas or feedback is greatly appreciated. Just reply to this ‘zine and tell me what you think!

Until next time, – keep your story alive!

Tom Gilbert


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