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She was called the First Lady of Civil Rights. Coretta Scott King
died today at the age of 78. She was born Coretta Scott on April 27th,
1927 in Marion, Alabama. When Dr. King was assassinated on April 4, 1968,
Coretta continued her husband's work by building the Martin Luther King,
Jr. Center for Nonviolent Social Change. She later led the successful
campaign to establish Dr. King's birthday, January 15th, as a national
holiday in the U.S. She was an influential voice for social change and
a great American, too. There are many tributes to her today (Google listings here).
You can learn about African-American history and genealogy with a four-hour
documentary airing on PBS. The series is titled African-American
Lives. According to the host, Renowned Scholar Henry Louis Gates,
Jr., "No television series has explored black roots both in America
and in Africa and used DNA research to investigate the origins of individual
African-Americans. AFRICAN-AMERICAN LIVES will be a great
way to introduce young people to the marvels of archival and scientific
research and their practical applications. I hope that this project will
encourage them - and all Americans, especially those of African descent
- to explore their roots."
Check your local listings for more and see this web link.
Today's technology allows communication like never before. Nearly instantaneous,
but often disposable. The art of letter writing seems nearly lost, yet that
was (and still can be) the way we record parts of our family history over
The New York Times printed an article, In 200 Years of Family Letters, a Nation's Story, that is one of
the largest collections of letters by a family - a true treasure trove of
over 75,000 documents filling 200 boxes. The timespan includes the Civil
War, early settling of Chicago, the early rise of feminism and the westward
expansion of America. The current family owner is negotiating to donate
the papers to an historical society.
What a remarkable collection. Most families don't have anything close to
that amount of ongoing letters - but there are probably letters, cards and
shared mementos. Perhaps you will be the one to collect and save these?
"Listen deeply...tell stories"
The above is the marketing line for the Center for Digital Story Telling.
I'm not affiliated with them in any way, but I surfed by their site and
it looks interesting. They offer public workshops and customized services
and consultations. The Center for Digital Storytelling is a California-based non-profit 501(c)3
arts organization and you can visit their web site here.
I just sent out a new issue of our free monthly newsletter
- if you are already subscribed look for it in your email box. I wrote
about the idea of spiritual memoirs and I'd be happy to hear from
you if you want more information about it.
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You've got to hand it to Oprah Winfrey - she can be pretty sharp when
it comes to marketing. All the press about James Frey's memoir, A
Million Little Pieces containing frabrications (her last "Book
of the Month" selection) has resulted in lots of publicity for her
and her book selections. Whether good or bad, it is still publicity. Now
she has chosen her next monthly book selection. Night by
Elie Wiesel is a first-hand account of of the horror he witnessed as a
youth at the Auschwitz and Buchenwald death camps during World War II.
His family were among millions killed by the Nazis at these camps. Some
have considered the book a novel, but Wiesel considers it more of a memoir.
The book Night was written in 1956 and first published in
1960 and over the years has earned high acclaim. Now it is shooting to
the top of the bestseller lists thanks to Winfrey's endorsement. (more here)
Perhaps you've seen the recent controversy surrounding James Frey's
memoir, A Million Little Pieces. The book is a bestseller,
propelled there in no small part by being an Oprah Winfrey "Book
of the Month" selection.
Frey's story is about alcoholism and drug addiction, harrowing tales and
eventual rehab and recovery. It has received lots of favorable reviews,
but recently investigative website The Smoking Gun alleged that much of the book is fabricated. They
state, in part: Police reports, court records, interviews with law
enforcement personnel, and other sources have put the lie to many key
sections of Frey's book. The 36-year-old author, these documents and interviews
show, wholly fabricated or wildly embellished details of his purported
criminal career, jail terms, and status as an outlaw "wanted in three
states." (see story here)
This raises the whole issue about memoirs. It is one thing to embellish,
but another to outright lie.
The author appeared recently on Larry King and denied the allegations
and Oprah even phoned in and stood by Frey. Nevertheless, the book now
seems tainted if some of the key elements are indeed more fiction than
fact. It doesn't take away from James Frey's writing abilities, but it
does raise a red flag about proper memoir writing.
I, along with many other professional personal historians, strongly believe
that preserving and telling your life story is incredibly important and
valuable. I hope that if you are planning on writing a memoir you will
try to be honest about your life and the lessons you want to pass on.
I'm sure you run across quotations from time to time that resonate. Here's
one from George Eliot that certainly fits for anyone who believes in a
"What greater thing is there for two human souls than to feel
that they are joined...to strengthen each other...to be one with each
other in silent unspeakable memories."
Happy New Year to you all! As you move into this new year think seriously
about how you might take some steps to preserve your family history and/or
tell your story. The use of "ethical
wills" is becoming a growing trend and an addition to financial
planning as this article posted at the Motley Fool site attests. (Compose Your Legacy)
The year 2005 was a tough one for many, especially those affected by the
many natural disasters (the hurricane season was one of the most violent
ever). An interesting look back done by students in Albuquerque and published
in the Albuquerque Journal's "Yes" section had the students
doing a different reminiscing. Instead of looking back on the past year
they wrote about the year 1905! That time was a buzz about a young Albert
Eingstein's new theory of relativity, the possibility of widespread poverty
in America and a proposed merger between Rolls and Royce for the fledgling
automobile industry (with doubts that the machines would replace the tried-and-true
horse driven carriages any time soon). It was an interesting read - sorry
that it was not posted to the newspaper's website.
For all you football fans out there I hope you've enjoyed the exciting
college bowl games. There have been some great contests and the big Rose
Bowl battle between USC and Texas is going on now (so I've got to scoot!).