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Celebrate the Earth Today
April 22, 2018
Today is Earth Day 2018.
Our common home needs to be treated with love, respect, and care.
Despite the many differences and challenges we face, Mother Earth is
our planet. We've got to treat our planet better. It is not disposable,
just as our lives are precious and not to be thrown away.
There is a terrific animated Google Doodle Video featuring Jane Goodall that you should watch. See it here.
Advance Directives Give Voice to Your Life and Death Care
April 17, 2018
Nobody likes to think about it. We are all going to die. But if you
don't think about the end of life and express ahead of time your
thoughts on how you want medical care to proceed if you are in a life
and death situation then you put the burden on someone else. You leave
the difficult decision to continue with family or medical providers.
An advance directive is not really that complicated and there is plenty of information on the web to get you started. A Google search on the term
reveals over a million and a half results and includes a definition and
sites where you can get forms or directions. You should certainly make
sure you create something that meets any legal needs. Doctors,
hospitals, and legal firms can provide advice and information, too.
My son is a registered nurse working in an intensive care unit. He sees
firsthand the angst and challenges for people when a patient doesn't
have an advance directive. He reminds me that this is something
people really need to do.
I also encourage people to think about any thoughts, values and messages you want to share in advance of death. An ethical will
(sometimes called a Legacy Letter) is a great way to write out your
gratitude for family and loved ones and is a cherished document for
them to keep.
Just yesterday I found out a friend of mine, not much older than me,
suddenly passed away from a heart attack. So writing this post is a
timely reminder to you and me. Live your life fully, but also plan
Her Goal Really Was to Climb a Mountain
April 12, 2018
Some people view major goals, the ones that are very difficult and challenging, as metaphorically a mountain to climb. But for 7-year old Montana Kelly, a second grader from Austin, Texas, this was literally
her goal. She wanted to be the youngest girl to ever climb to the top
of Mount Kilimanjaro. That is not insignificant; the mountain is higher
than 19,000 feet!
She did it, accompanied by her mother and some guides. It wasn't easy
and on top of the physical toll on her body she also had to keep up
with her school work at night in her tent. As an elementary school
teacher I find this particularly inspiring.
Completing the climb is pretty amazing for anyone, especially a girl so
young. She has a special memory to treasure for the rest of her life. I
think her mother also will consider this a life highlight.
What makes her accomplishment even more special is that Montana did in
honor of her father who she lost when she was just three years old. A
great tribute by a true hero.
| link to the ABC News story |
When I Walk
April 8, 2017
When I walk I go to another place. Literally, of course, as in the
places my feet take me. But I am speaking also of another place, a
meditative and contemplative space, where I can think, reflect, dream
and just be.
For me, walking is more than exercise. Surely it does satisfy that
necessary movement of body parts. Staying fit and limber is important,
especially as I age. When I walk, however, my perceived age is not my
actual chronological age. Certainly I do not feel sixty-two as I
stroll, amber or trudge the path.
Part of my purpose in walking is to be on this Path. Not a
destination, instead a journey. When I walk I write. Yes, my head
composes thoughts and reflections that often turn into prose. I walked
about a mile and a half before sitting down to write this piece.
When I walk I slow down. I take in
the surroundings, breathe the air (which today was a bit challenging
since the trees are blooming and my allergies have awakened!), and my
sense of smell and sight goes to work.
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French Policeman Arnaud Beltrame Gave His Life to Save a Stranger
March 27, 2018
A rare act of courage resulted in saving the life of a terrorist
hostage. A female supermarket employee was probably going to die,
but French policeman Arnaud Beltrame convinced the terrorists to let
him exchange places with her (see news story).
This man already had a history of courage and service. His family knew
about his selflessness. "Beyond his job, he gave his life for someone
else, for a stranger, " stated his brother, Cedric, in a radio
interview in France. President Emmanuel Macron has announced plans for
a ceremony to formally recognize his heroism.
We never truly know what will happen each day. Here was a twist of fate
with a person willing to give his life to save another, the greatest
sacrifice anyone can make. Amidst the daily onslaught of negative news
stories it is good to see that even in tragedy there can be goodness.
Arnaud Beltrame deserves to be recognized for his incredible self
Marching for Our Lives and Our Future
March 24, 2018
Are we really paying attention to what is going on? (You might want to listen to this song by Chicago to realize history is repeating itself).
Every day matters. Every life matters.
So proud of some of our young people today. So hopeful that things can change.
The March of Our Lives is about sensible gun control and safety for our children, our schools and all our lives. But it is more than that.
More will be revealed from today's events. Keep working for a better
world because your life matters, your story matters and we are all in
this together - whether you believe that or not. I do and I hope you
Stephen Hawking Dies
on Pi Day
March 14, 2018
Stephen Hawking, the famed and brilliant physicist, has died at 76. On Pi Day,
no less. March 14 is called that because it numerically represents
3.14, the first three digits of pi, the ratio of the circumference of a
circle to its diameter.
It seems fitting somehow that Hawking died on such a day, although he
had admitted before that he's been expecting death for sometime. He
lived long past the expectancy of someone with ALS (the degenerative
muscular disease). His life was celebrated in the award
winning movie, The
Theory of Everything.
There was much to his life. He wasn't a believer in God (at least in
any traditional sense), but he did believe in the wonders of the
universe and had a lot to say about that. His thoughts about death and
God are somewhat represented in this TIME post. He also must have had a good sense of humour - he made a guest appearance on The Big Bang Theory which naturally delighted the cast of science nerds, especially Sheldon.
Hawking will continue to inspire others with his thoughts and words (A Brief History of Time), just as all great minds have. Perhaps I will check out some of that today while having a slice of pie.
International Women's Day Google Style
March 8, 2018
Today, March 8, is International Women's Day. It was established to
help bring more attention to the need for gender equality. Far too long
has there been too many instances where there is not the same economic
opportunity for women compared to men. The movement is growing for
equal pay for equal work and more opportunity for women to be in
positions of power and leadership.
The concept of equality is something most people can get behind. But it
isn't the way of the world. Yet.
On this International Women's Day Google created more than a memorable
doodle. They gave several women artists from around the world the
opportunity to showcase a story with their drawings and animations.
It's pretty interesting to see. After today
you will have to visit the Google Doodles page to find
these. I do encourage you to view them. Also, women are
encouraged to use the hashtag, #HerStoryOurStory
to express themselves and share their stories. You can read about it
with various online posts (here and here for example).
Way to Celebrate International Women's Day Google style!
has a story to tell!
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